The Family Model

This week in class we were required to write a paper on the BYU-Idaho learning model. All our classes are built around this model which essentially includes three parts: prepare, teach one another, and ponder and prove. As part of this paper we were asked to discuss how the learning model could be applied to family life, so I wanted to share some of my thoughts on the topic.

The BYU-Idaho Learning Model is set up in a way that any student can be successful; however the principles can also apply to family life as well. A family built upon preparation, teaching one another, and pondering, and proving will be better off than other families with no system in place.

There may technically be no “homework” assignments in family life; however preparation is still a vital part of a successful family. Every member should have their responsibilities, from mom and dad, all the way down to the youngest child. The preparation step in the “family” model would include household chores such as, doing dishes, cleaning bedrooms, bathrooms, etc. To be successful in this step, every family member should do everything in their power to make the house a happy and comfortable place to be, thus preparing for rewarding family life.

Families can also be greatly improved by teaching one another, the second principle of the BYU-Idaho learning model. The best way to think about this particular principle is working together to accomplish goals. Every family member has different activities they are involved in, and varying goals; a family should also have family goals. Each individual in the family should be aware of each other’s goals, as well as the family’s goals, and then work together so that everyone can succeed.

The final step in the BYU-Idaho learning model is to ponder and prove. This refers to real-life application. In family life I will refer to it as family recreation, and fun. The real-life application of the previous two steps is being able to enjoy each other’s company in daily activities. Every family needs time to spend on fun activities, which will build strong bonds of friendship, and foster love. This is real-life application of family principles.

Every family can be happy if they put forth the effort. The BYU-Idaho learning model may be geared toward students, but can be a great guide for families as well.